Meaning of love

To My Friends Who Are...........SINGLE
給我單身朋友們
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But
愛就像一隻蝴蝶。越要追牠，卻越要逃避。
if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can
如果就隨牠自由的飛，牠會在你最不注意時飛向你。
make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it
愛使人快樂，卻常傷害人。但只有在你把愛給了一個真正值得付出的人時，是最珍貴的。
to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.
所以，花點時間去選擇最好的他/她吧




To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE
給我那不是單身的朋友們
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.' It's about
愛不能使他/她成為一個'完美的人'
finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
它卻可以使你找到一個幫你成長的他/她



To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
給我玩世不恭的朋友們
Never say 'I love you' if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they
如果你不在乎，不要說'我愛你'。如果他們不在時，不要討論自已的感受
aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look
不要涉足會使他人心碎的生活。
in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is
說謊時，不要看著眼睛。
to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works
最殘忍的事莫過於男人讓女人愛他，卻是逢場作戲。反之亦然...
both says...


LOTR - Follow The Script by ~midnightgem on deviantART

To My Friends Who Are............MARRIED 給我已婚的朋友們
Love is not about 'it's your fault', but 'I'm sorry.' Not 'where are you',
不要老是說'這是你的錯'，何不說說'對不起'。
but 'I'm right here.' Not 'how could you', but 'I understand.' Not 'I
不要老是問'你去哪裡了'，何不說說'我就在這兒等著你'。
不要老是問'你怎麼會這麼作？'，何不說說'我了解你'。
wish you were', but 'I'm thankful you are.'
不要老是說'我希望你這麼做'，何不說說'我感謝你的一切'。



To My Friends Who Are............ENGAGED
給我那已訂婚的朋友們
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how
要真正衡量包容心，不是看在一起幾年了，而是要看彼此的敬愛
good you are for each other.



To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN
給我心碎的朋友們
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to 心碎的時間和傷害的深度，完全取決於你自已。
go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
難的是，如何從中學習，而不是從傷痛中爬起。

Heart Broken Love by ~angelofsinX on deviantART


To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE 給我所有天真的朋友們
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too
要如何戀愛？--就愛吧。不要欲言又止；要互相協調，不要太固執；
persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand,
要分享，且千萬不要有不公平；要了解，別命令；
and get hurt but never keep the pain.
受傷後不要再記恨。


To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE
給我積極的朋友們
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but 看到你所愛的他/她和其他人很快樂使你心碎
it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
但知道你所愛的他/她是和你在一起不快樂，令人更加的傷心。

EB: Ninten is... by *roseannepage on deviantART


To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS
給我害怕去承認的朋友們
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when 當你和他/她分手時，愛受到傷害
someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you
當他/她和你分手時，更是傷痛
love has no idea how you feel.
但傷害最深的是你所愛的他/她完全無法了解你的感受


I Should Tell You by ~prexus on deviantART


To My Friends Who Are............STILL HOLDING ON
給我那還在等待的朋友們
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to
人生最傷心的事，是你和他/她愛情長跑了多年，最後的結局卻不如所望。
find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it. If he isn't worth it now he's not
'如果他/她現在讓你覺得不值得付出，那麼一年，甚至十年後，都不會值得付出的。
going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go.....
讓他/她走吧


TO ALL MY FRIENDS....... 給我所有的朋友們
My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature,
我竭誠祝福你們愛著一個誠實、強壯、成熟、衷心、有衝勁、保護你、積極、值得付出和無私的他/她。
never-chan gin g, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish

Get yourself a lion cub. It may even give you wonders that maybe a human friendship won't. LOL. Watch the following video. Reeally very touching. Can we humans have this kind of so extraordinary relationship... ? =P

In 36 hours...

Will be off to the furtherst country I have ever been so far. Kinda of excited and sian also. Rushing so much for this whole month. Feeling kinda of frustrated actually.Today was my embarkation off, but have to go back to ship to do some last minute work, no choice, but just have to do it. At least I still can get to come back.

Today is the day whereby guards are off to brunei. So there goes wilberg, wenyuan and jian rong.

Hahas, so surprise Jenny called. Nice dinner with good chat. Ok, my knowledge on some stuff has increased. My guess again are right, but tend to deviate with other people's opninion.

Have been getting forgetful this past few weeks. Looks quite bad. Wonder is it me, or is it the workload thrown to me. Stressed out.

Oh, CNY. What a rush one. My whole room is in a mess, didnt had the luxury of time like the past few years to keep it spick and pan. All my cousins have grown up. Some became more vocal, some are being chased by aunts and uncles to find gfs. Those who are attached disappears quicly after getting hong bao.. ahahs joking. Feels like I became the big brother of all the young cousins. Weird. Maybe next year, things will change... Hahas. I dunno. Spent my time at my aunt's house playing computer games and PS2 with them. Times changed so much, in the past, we used to always play with fireworks and pop pop. At least, there is still some feel on CNY. Technology has replaced everything, which is kinda of sad. Only special thing I feel is that , I gobbled quite a variety of new year goodies. LOL.

Kushindo or Yushinbo? cant really remb the name of the restuarant. Celebrated my Grandma's birthday there. The food werent kind of fresh, guess it is due to the fact that is was the second day of CNY. But the variety of food there is alot. So yeah, didnt really felt the freshness of the food though. Yup Yup.

My CNY basically is that short and sweet. Yup Yup. Miss my computer, bed, family and frens I guess. LOL. Alright. See you guys. Pre planned posts will appear. Nothing much about my life. Just some interesting emails that i copied up here, and as usual those weird and funny videos are also up. Have fun reading them, will drop by here if possible. Till then, Take care everyone! Keep tagging, i will come to my tagboard i think.lol

hello=D

Haha so amazing. NO MORE OJT! PHuieEEe!!!

Wohoo, please call lim bei RNS3 =D

Just joking. Amos , why i didnt see your tjc peeps collecting newspapers around my neighbourhood?All of you all tua-ning ah?

Blogging to say Im still here. Amazed That I am still here alive and kicking well.

CNY. so looking forward to it. Last few good days to before coming back on the 14 th of March.

Wuahah, what a funny scene today. Shuzzie, walked in front of you! I slowed down le, but you still walked straight. haha, until I heard a "EH??" lol. Nice to meet your bf=)...ok...that sounds gay... Get silver le boh? =P Call himi faster, so next time NDP .. say NDP 15. You can shout for his name. Wuahaha....

Ok siao liao. Today got some talk to call us join navy. instead we digged out for our payments due to us . LOL. Ok finally been settled. Lets hope money comes in soon!

Wohoo! madness. Tomorrow is like A levels for the ship and I am still acting like I am taking CA1 in primary school. Hmm, CA1, wonder who still remember what it stands for... COntinual Assessment. LOL.

OK, ta da. Off I go.!

Anw, some last minute updates. This person has a very special place in my heart. i want to spend this passage specially for this person. Met this person duirng tuiton in my secondary school days. In JC, we were in the same JC. Now in army, I have met this special person again. We were so shocked that day when we first laid our eyes on each other..... It was a darn special moment....

"Mereith! Why u sign on? " Yeah... the special one was Mereith. hahas, looks like he is sailing with me on MSTD. Always meeting him on unexpected occasions. LOL.

wanted to type another thing but forgot le. KK late for shio.. rushing off! Putting my playlist on random mode... ome freaking bangala music is playing from it. ARGH BANGLA!

1 year soldier!

I am just happy to look at the extra dollars the government is giving me for protecting the red spot =D

Ok la, 1 year from the day i stepped foot onto the holy soil of Tekong. Zoomed, everything went past. Sergeatns, drills, parade square, mobile canteen, canteen break, route march, chao keng. Zoom. All gone in a flash. Somehow thankful to be in the army in the year of 2008. A year when I think many civilians had a hard time passing.

Much more stuff to say. But again Time and The SAF directive forbids me to say. So adios. Back to ship tmr. 7th week. The ship badge is coming. Im smelling it.

Hiatus Mode

Hmm, ok feeling damn stressed this month. Guess cos of a change of environment abit too much to handle. Posts will try to do it before I will be officially missing for 1.5 months.

Yup.

"Work is work, friendship is friendship. If you can find friendship in work, then good for you, if not, do your work and that is it." That is the only statement I agreed with SP2.

Argh. Freaking stressed out la. 1.5 months wun smell the singapore smell. come back dunno will be chiong or rest. 2 weeks later going to taiwan to chiong Zhui(water).

ok, signing off.

Selemat New Year!

had one of the most unique celebration ever. Watched the fireworks witht he dutywatch yesterday at the bridgewing. hahas. Wonderful fireworks. Not sure if the red flares were shot up by the ships at Marina Bay. it was very beautiful.
Like stars dropping from the sky. Woot. And the whole naval base were playing with the Ship's horn, pressing like mad!

2009 should seems exciting to me, cos of the PInk IC, but somehow or rather I don;t feel it. I will be heading to so many different countries more than the only country I have gone to in my past 19 years which is Malaysia.

First Bangladesh, I dunno what I will be doing at there, I guess I will buy some rice back for everyone. LOL. Hope there won't be any tropical typhoons or whatever not. Pray no earthquake at sumatra there. IF not I will be on one of the world's best Roller Coaster Rides ever.( better than Singapore Flyer) At least, I think I will be swimming instead of being suspended on a rope....

Next East Malaysia. So cool. Let see if I can meet Kenny Sia. After that going to Sawadeka, i am from thailand.

By the time I come back, i wonder what shocking news I will know of. This will be and the half months. Wonder who in OCS will I know of.

Taiwan is up next. Gao Xiong. Cool. See betel nuts lady. LOL. Go find Jay CHou. LOL. So lame. Dunno la, heard shopping also not much to shop. C look c look.

Iraq the next stop? ahhas. Really hope can go there. Like they say, once in a lifetime. But it would means I will extend my ORD. Pink IC or Once in a lifetime experience? =) When i talk about iraq, i wun be stepping on her soil, feeling bullets flying past me or watching grenades flying over my head or trying to play baseall with it. I will be on the waters outside there.

Alright, Blog hopping right now. everyone is doing refelction. Gd gd. 2008. I made many wrong decisions I guessed. Results. Hope for more, but know that some things back in 2007 couldnt make it happen. I did not heed the message of once bitten twice shy. Well, part and parcel of life. Some people just don't learn.

NS. Very gd experience so far. I am not someone who worked in the civilian world before. Coming NS hence became a huge jump to notice the good and evil of people. Backstabbing, politics have all became a norm. Treat people nice doesn't equate to people treating u nice too. So give preferrential treatment. Fuck those who aren't nice to you, don't give them face, cos they never will. 2009 will be exciting for me. Venturing to places I never have though I will go to. Of cos, buddies that I have made. Tekong pals, few are still in contact, the rest has disappeared into thin air. Of cos, more pals in Navy. Closer with NDP and courses we went through. Thankful to have met them. Cont the brotherhood.

Friends. Thankful for everyone who has been tyring to keep in contact with one another. I missed 2 parties already. So sadded. Both Christmas Eve and Countdown. Not forgetting how many people's bdae are also off the list. Misunderstandings surfaced quite alot, then again, understanding played a part again. Friendship , a 2 way thing, not one way. This year will even be worse I guess. Can say out of this country for close to a total of 4 months.

Family. Big movments for my grandma. Moving from west to the east. Good for me for cny! Super near. means can sleep later... muahaha... More or less good, maybe spent too little time with aunts and the rest. Great time with my parents and sis. No more quarrel with Sis. Happy for her graduation and her job.( though it kinda of sucks witht his bad times). Parents are naggy as usual, I think NS was the vaccine. I am kinda of immune to the nags. nags and vulgarities have reached equal status. Instead of feeling frustrated, I will feel weird if I don't hear someone saying. in camps i mean.

Finance. Sucks big time. Where is the promotion man. Nuff said. Lehman Brothers( screw u) I was not affeected though.

Health. Bad in tekong, good in navy. Losing my muscles gained in the weekly gym session I had in IMOS. So much SK on ship that I have become a coolie again.

Relationship. Well, how do i start? Nah, I guess I should say where was the ending? Waited to no avail, same old response. Question marks fills my head, but full stops have replaced them. Disappointed I am but Guessed numbeness have replaced it. Emptiness and Busy-ness has kept me occupied. Looked at some NS plas, and plas around me, many have entered new entries into the "Tragic Love Stories of NSmen".

Oh well, guess that is about it. Stay Positive peeps! Off to swimming. IPPT coming! I want a silver!